1,358. Getting Married
212:5 A mourner may go to a wedding meal to serve as a waiter. He eats the food they give him from the meal at home.
213:1 A mourner may not get married during shloshim; this is equally true for both men and women. It is permitted after shloshim, even when mourning for a parent. To arrange a marriage without a celebratory meal is permitted even during shiva.