Shemone Esrei 3 - Opening Thoughts and Words

(Sources: Sifsei Chaim, Beur Tefillas Shemone Esrei, Sefer Hachinuch Rav Schwab, Iyun Tefilla, Nesiv Bina, Gateway to Happiness)

The Gemara in Berachos (30b) teaches that one’s inner posture at the outset of Shemoneh Esrei is significant. A person should not begin prayer out of grief; nor from laziness, levity, or idle chatter. All of these states undermine kavanah. Rather, one must approach Shemoneh Esrei with koved rosh—a sense of gravity and presence. The Gemara explains that this koved rosh is not somberness, but simchah shel mitzvah—the joy that flows from spiritual purpose.

The Gemara in Berachos(31a) illustrates this idea:

Rav Hamnuna was asked to sing a song at a wedding. He responded with the seemingly incongruous lyrics “ Woe to us that we die, Woe to us that we die” Rav Moshe Rosenstein explains that this jarring refrain, was to dispel any notion of happiness that was fleeting or superficial. True simchah is spiritual and enduring. Only when one recognizes that human life in this world is finite, and that serving the Borei Olam is its purpose, can joy be fully real and deeply rooted. Awareness of mortality does not diminish happiness; it refines it, anchoring joy in serving Hashem and eternity rather than illusion (Gateway to Happiness, Z. Pliskin, p.113).

This story reveals that seriousness and simchah shel mitzvah are not opposites but partners. They are symbiotic, not contradictory. There is something profoundly fulfilling—indeed exhilarating—about recognizing Hashem’s eternal benevolence toward us and aligning ourselves with it. That awareness generates a joy that is both elevated and stable, and the perfect attitude with which to start communicating with the Ribono Shel Olam.

It is for this reason that the recollection of Krias Yam Suf and Ashrei, (by Mincha) precede Shemoneh Esrei. These tefillos cultivate the precise simchah shel mitzvah with which one should begin.

At the moment of Krias Yam Suf, Klal Yisrael reached a level the Torah itself describes as simchah rabbah—great joy. In that prophetic state, they were able to recognize Hashem not only for their redemption, but also for the suffering that preceded it, and even for His apparent silence, which had once felt like indifference. In hindsight, all was understood as purposeful and benevolent and this encompassing perspective of their total experience became a powerful premier example of simcha shel mitzva.

Similarly, Ashrei nurtures joy by proclaiming the good fortune of one who “dwells in the House of Hashem” and merits serving Him continually. Only after this emotional and spiritual preparation does the text of Shemoneh Esrei itself begin.

It is with this posture—joy emanating from a spiritual, benevolent perspective of this world that one can begin the words of shemone esrei.

Baruch

The word Baruch, which permeates our tefillos, invites careful reflection.

Explanation One:

Baruch acknowledges Hashem as the source of all blessing. He is the Creator of existence, the One who brought humanity into being and granted man dominion over the world and all it contains. Hashem desires only the good for His creations, wishing that they become worthy and meritorious recipients of His beneficence. When we truly internalize this truth, we understand that saying Baruch Atah Hashem is not merely descriptive, it is transformative. By consciously recognizing Hashem as the embodiment of all goodness and directing our thoughts toward gratitude and awareness, we make ourselves vessels capable of drawing His blessing into the world (Sefer HaChinuch, Mitzvah 430; Rabbeinu Bachya to Devarim 8:10).

Explanation Two:

The term berachah also connotes increase and growth. In this sense, we are declaring: “Hashem, may awareness of You expand in the world—through our personal emunah and through the collective faith of humanity.” Rav Schwab, Iyun Tefillah, on Birchas Al Netilas Yadayim).

Our act of “blessing” Hashem brings about an increase of Ruach HaKodesh, and serves as a catalyst through which His creations receive blessing (Rabbeinu Bachya, Devarim 8:10)

Atah

We address Hashem in the second person—Atah, “You”—without royal distance or formal remove. This choice reflects the remarkable intimacy Hashem invites. We stand before Him not as distant subjects, but as children and confidants, speaking directly, comfortably, and honestly, as one would to a trusted friend “( Rav Schwab, Iyun Tefilla, Birchas al Netilas Yadayim).

Hashem / Adon

We then declare Hashem as Adon HaKol—Master of all. He is sovereign over every force, every moment, and every detail of existence.